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The Sadomasochism formed of sadism and masochism ( sado and maso ) is named after the Marquis de Sade, known for his libertines writings about the pleasure of harming others, and of Leopold von Sacher-Masoch, whose books depict the pleasure of submission. Generally, the Masochist needs to suffer and/or be humiliated to find pleasure and excitement, and the Sadist needs to hurt and/or insult to be excited. During a SM relationship, violence is granted, ritualized and accepted. BDSM is a contraction of the words « Bondage, Discipline, Domination, Submission, SadoMasochism ». It refers to a form of sharing using the pain, the constraint, humiliation or erotic scenery. It encompasses many practices like bondage, domination, submission, punishment, masks, handcuffs, ropes, chains, whip, ridingcrop... It is done mostly in couple, with a dominant man and a submissive woman or a dominant woman and a submissive man. We usually distinguish hard sm and soft sm. The hard sm refers to physical pain while the soft sm focus more on humiliation practices, serving without bodily pain. Sm and bdsm is found in movies and books; Many movies or books contain sm scenes of spanking, whipping and bondage, sadomasochistic fantasies made without telling that the theme is the SM. Certain creations put BDSM in the center. The best known are "Story of O" and "Fifty Shades of Grey." These works often show the parallel between strong love that unites the people and those practices.